Three things that surprised me about self employment

It’s been almost two decades since I first became self employed. As I am about to launch my first Group Program for business owners and solopreneurs, I am finding myself reflecting on three things which didn’t turn out to be what I expected.

1. What having an abundance mindset really means … and what it does not

This misunderstanding is something I still see making the internet rounds: it essentially invites aspiring business owners to feel good about themselves and to hope for results, “believing” if they work enough on their own mindset the money will follow.

This is not what having an abundance mindset is. 

Having an abundance mindset is the understanding that there are many potential customers and ways you can be of service. It is also the attitude you have towards your fellow entrepreneurs, uplifting each other, being open to sharing tips and resources, showing goodwill.

In other words, an abundance mindset keeps you open to opportunities, approachable, and relaxed so you can have your best ideas and do your best work. But it does not mean you will manifest abundance with just any business idea.

You still have to have a sound business approach and the right market for your business to work. An abundance mindset makes the entire process much more fun – and creates great conditions for your success.

A supportive group of fellow business owners can be an incredible way to practice and/or learn this mindset, experiencing the giving and receiving that comes with it. 

2. When to quit

Early in my career, I read Seth Godin’s book The Dip: A Little Book That Teaches You When to Quit (and When to Stick) and it made a huge impression on me.

Seth Godin busts the myth that quitting is always bad, and invites the reader to quit fast if they realize something either has no potential or they are not up for the challenges ahead.

This lesson has served me well over the years. I have also seen countless people go in and out of business – showing me how normal it is and how change is often related to growth. Seeing “‘quitting” as part of the Flow can be empowering as well as liberating. 

When we come together with others on the entrepreneurial journey, we truly learn to see everything as a learning experience, encouraging and holding space for each other in the ups and downs of business.

3. You never stop learning

When I was younger I thought I would go to college, learn what I needed, and then get a job. Sure, I expected to learn on the job as well, but essentially I saw it as a linear progression: study –> learn –> do –> success.

I thought 40-year-olds knew everything and I would have it all figured out by then 🤣

Gosh, was I wrong!!! 

The reality is that you never stop learning, and your degree is very unlikely to be the final step in your growth. 

And while learning in school is awesome, there are things you can only learn on the field: this is why getting together with others who are growing their business can be so helpful. We all learn from each other, and you’d be amazed at both how much you still have to learn and how much you already can share.

If you are looking to get some things done as a business owner or solopreneur, without shying away from bigger picture thinking and inner work, join me for a new Repurpose Your Purpose program, GROW YOUR BUSINESS: a 6-week interactive, online group program, to find momentum, move forward, learn something new, and make strategic use of your resources while keeping it simple.

Intrigued? Learn more and apply here.